How can you ever move forward when you keep getting slapped in the face with the past? I watch Whit work everyday around that junkyard and see the hurt and pain in his eyes. He sits in his Father's desk and feels his presence. His heart breaks. This from the man of steel.
The fact of the matter is he is a great man and works hard for everything that we have. He does not have to lie, cheat, or steal to make it in the world. His father told him that he would have a fight on his hands after his death. But it shocked us that it was from the people that we would never suspect.
I find myself looking and searching for answers and wishing that I could help heal his pain, but there is really nothing I can do. I back him and hope for the pain to stop, but he feels as though he is going at life alone. Basically, we are the only family he has. He gave others the chance to make the right decision, but they chose not too. Even real blood betrayed him. Lied, stole, cheated all under oath. WOW.....
We opened the junkyard back up. Life is very difficult around there. Whit has to deal with the terrible ones that live around there and I just wish that we could smile and all get on with our lives. To each his own and leave us alone. There comes a time in life when hatred becomes an obsession and you have to walk away. Come on people... It is flattering, but getting kind of OLD now.
I watch people in and out daily and see them do criminal acts, but for some reason the law is for the criminals. I even listened to people lie under oath, with a straight face. It was unbelievable.
But, I have to admire my husband. He keeps on going without letting stuff bother him. Whit is there for my sons and myself. I thank God EVERY DAY for such a wonderful man.
Those EX-Family members have their side of the story, and can say whatever they want too, but anyone who has a REAL mind knows the TRUTH!!!!! There is nothing else that you can do to hurt Whit. You cannot kill his Daddy or his dad's memory any more. You just disgrace his MEMORY! You should be ashamed!!!
Saying this, I just want to Thank God for my blessings and wish that people would get on with their lives. A new baby was born, FOCUS on that and leave well enough alone. Things could get soooo much worse! Stop all of your postings and eye rollings.... MOVE on..... We have.
I hope NOBODY ever has to go through this type of stuff EVER!
